Dr Shafik Ahmed Parker’s memoir, Parcel Baby: Aliases, Apartheid, Neurosurgery, chronicles his extraordinary journey from being smuggled into South Africa as an infant to becoming a neurosurgeon under Apartheid’s oppressive regime. The book intertwines personal narrative with the socio-political history of the Indian Muslim diaspora in South Africa, exploring themes of identity, resilience and moral complexity.
Parker’s early life as a ‘parcel baby’ marked the beginning of a fractured existence. Separated from his biological parents, he endured a harsh upbringing under his paternal uncle, Dawood Amien, and later his abusive older brother, Mohamed-Haji, who treated him as a servant. These formative years instilled in him a relentless drive for survival and self-reliance.
Parker’s Indian heritage anchored him in a traditional Muslim community grappling with cultural preservation in a foreign land, while his classification as ‘non-White’ under Apartheid rendered him an outsider to both black and white South Africans. His multiple aliases—adopted for immigration, survival, and professional advancement—further fragmented his sense of self.
The memoir starkly illustrates the systemic racism that restricted ‘non-White’ life, from segregated spaces to limited opportunities. Yet Parker navigated these barriers with pragmatism, pursuing education and a medical career in a field dominated by white professionals. His success, however, was fraught with ethical tensions: benefiting from an unjust system while privately resisting it, a paradox emblematic of many marginalised professionals under apartheid.
Author: Dr Shafik Ahmed Parker
Publisher: iRon Publishers, Cape Town
ISBN: 978-1-0370-0686-9 (paperback), 205pp.
Struggle, faith and political awakening
Parker’s existential struggles extend beyond race to faith and belonging. Though raised Muslim, his relationship with Islam became increasingly tenuous. Influenced by his tutor, Richard Dudley, he rejected rigid religious dogma, asserting that morality need not hinge on faith. A pilgrimage to the Saudi kingdom in 2023 with his wife Gabby crystallised his spiritual disconnect: ‘Despite my open mind and heart, I couldn’t quite connect with the divine presence.’
However, his superficial engagement with Islam suggests that a deeper exploration of its intellectual traditions might have addressed his doubts. This unresolved tension mirrors his broader search for identity—caught between Indian roots, South African reality and a secular worldview.
Parker’s political consciousness evolved cautiously. While not a conventional activist, his involvement in the South Peninsula Educational Fellowship (SPEF) and protests against the University of Cape Town’s revocation of Archie Mafeje’s appointment revealed a commitment to social justice. Education emerged as his tool for liberation, a theme underpinning his advocacy for marginalised communities.
The memoir’s rawest sections dissect his fraught family dynamics, particularly generational and cultural rifts with parents and siblings. His marriages and personal relationships, marked by emotional distance, underscore the toll of ambition and resilience. Parker’s unflinching honesty about failures and regrets—eschewing redemption narratives—lends the narrative profound humanity.
Neurosurgery and legacy
Parker’s neurosurgery career symbolises both triumph and contradiction. Achieving excellence in a racially exclusionary field, he confronted the moral weight of practicing medicine under Apartheid. His dedication to healing, framed as a ‘sanctity of life,’ contrasts with the regime’s dehumanising policies. The memoir positions his professional journey as an act of quiet resistance, though it avoids romanticising his compromises.
For the Indian diaspora, Parcel Baby reflects shared histories of migration, adaptation and loss. For all readers, it underscores identity as fluid—shaped by history, choice and chance. Parker’s story resists tidy conclusions, instead emphasising growth through self-awareness. His candid reckoning with flaws—whether as a son, brother or believer—makes the memoir compelling. It is a testament to resilience, not as heroism, but as the imperfect pursuit of dignity in an inequitable world.
In its unvarnished portrayal of a life straddling worlds, Parcel Baby transcends individual memoir to become a sociological lens on race, faith and belonging. Parker’s refusal to be defined by circumstance—whether as a ‘parcel baby,’ ‘non-White’ outsider, or secular sceptic—cements his narrative as both uniquely personal and universally resonant. The book challenges readers to grapple with the complexities of survival, the costs of ambition and the enduring quest for selfhood amid systemic oppression.
Review by Mahmood Sanglay
