‘By engaging in dialogue, communities can work together to address common challenges, from economic inequality to environmental degradation. In this way, dialogue serves as a catalyst for positive change.’
by PROFESSOR ASLAM FATAAR
As our nation grapples with ongoing divisions, reflecting on the commitments enshrined in our 1996 Constitution is essential. The principles of non-racialism, non-sexism and inclusive development were intended to guide our country toward a more just and united future. However, we have strayed from this path, and the repercussions are evident in the growing mistrust between communities, religious and cultural groups.
It is time to bring the necessity of intercultural and interfaith dialogue back to the centre of our national agenda. Many may wonder: Is dialogue essential? Can it really make a difference? Dialogue is not just about talking; it is about understanding, developing empathy, and finding common ground in a divided world.
A personal reflection: Celie, Wayer and the power of friendship
Let me share a personal story that beautifully illustrates the impact of intercultural and interfaith relations. My mom, Jawayer (Wayer), and her friend, Cecelia (Celie) Christians, were remarkable women who played a significant role in my life and the lives of many others. Their friendship is something I cherish deeply.
Aunty Celie was not just a family friend; she was like a second mother to us. Her influence and love extended deeply into our lives, leaving an indelible impact that shaped who we are today. From childhood memories to moments of offering support during challenging times, Aunty Celie was always there.
Their friendship was based on care, generosity and companionship – buddies and soulmates who shared everything. They were so close that we, their children, grew up like cousins, families visiting each other during Christmas and Labarang. It was through their Godly friendship that we were blessed, learning the value of love and connection that transcended cultural and religious boundaries.
In 1989, when my parents embarked on their pilgrimage to Makkah, Aunty Celie’s unwavering support was a testament to her kindness and devotion. She was a constant presence in our life, particularly during my university years, providing the encouragement and support that I needed to succeed. I owe much of my achievements to her love and guidance.
This story of friendship and mutual support between our families across cultural and religious lines underscores the value of dialogue and interaction across differences. Aunty Celie and my mother celebrated their religious and cultural differences. They embodied what it means to live in a society where love, respect, and understanding transcend boundaries. Their relationship reminds us that intercultural and interfaith connections are not abstract concepts but experiences that shape our lives and communities.
Why dialogue matters
Intercultural and interfaith dialogue and relations break down barriers between people of different backgrounds. They create spaces where individuals can share their beliefs, values, and experiences without fear of judgment or exclusion.
Schools, universities, churches, mosques, temples, synagogues, madrasahs and Sunday schools are important spaces for both formal and informal intercultural learning. Such learning and dialogue are essential for fostering mutual respect and understanding in a country as diverse as ours.
But let us address the scepticism head-on: Why should we care about dialogue when there are more pressing issues, like unemployment, crime, and economic inequality? The answer lies in the fact that social cohesion is the foundation upon which we can build solutions to these problems. A divided society is less likely to work together to address common challenges. In contrast, a society where people understand and respect each others’ differences is better equipped to collaborate on finding solutions.
The practical benefits
The benefits of intercultural and interfaith dialogue extend beyond feel-good platitudes. Effective dialogue and interaction encourage open and honest communication, allowing people to address misunderstandings and stereotypes that often lead to conflict. By promoting empathy and active listening, dialogue helps to build stronger social bonds, reducing the likelihood of tensions escalating into violence.
Moreover, dialogue can lead to tangible outcomes. By bringing people together we can create collaborative projects addressing real-world issues like poverty education, and environmental sustainability. When people from different backgrounds work together, they bring many perspectives and ideas that can lead to innovative solutions.
The 2015 Sustainable Development Goals (SDGs) offer a guiding framework for promoting inclusive citizenship. At the heart of these goals is the principle of substantive democratic citizenship – a concept that goes beyond simply having the right to vote or participate in government. It is about ensuring that everyone, especially marginalised and disadvantaged groups, has a say in the decisions that affect their lives. This is where intercultural and interfaith dialogue comes into play. By fostering deeper understanding and cooperation among people of different cultural and religious backgrounds, we can create a society where everyone feels included and valued.
Addressing concerns
For those who remain unconvinced, it is essential to acknowledge the concerns. Some may worry that dialogue is talk without action or forces people to compromise their beliefs. However, dialogue is not about changing anyone’s identity or diluting their values. It is about creating a platform where differences can be understood and respected rather than feared or misunderstood.
Moreover, dialogue is not an end in itself – it is a means to an end. By engaging in dialogue, communities can work together to address common challenges, from economic inequality to environmental degradation. In this way, dialogue serves as a catalyst for positive change.
Ultimately, fostering intercultural and interfaith dialogue is about returning to the promise of our Constitution. It is about building a society where diversity is celebrated, differences are respected, and everyone has an equal opportunity to participate in the life of the community.
As we navigate the complexities of our modern world, we cannot afford to ignore the importance of dialogue. By promoting understanding and cooperation among our diverse communities, we can create a more cohesive and harmonious society – one that is better equipped to face the challenges of the future.
Let us recommit to the promise of our Constitution and strive to build a society where diversity is celebrated, differences are respected, and everyone has an equal opportunity to participate in the life of the community. Just as Celie and Wayer exemplified in their lives, our strength lies in our ability to build bridges and live lives of mutual reciprocity and care.
- Aslam Fataar is Research Professor in Higher Education Transformation, Stellenbosch University.
– You may also want to read ‘Differences, yes. But, humanity first!’ and ‘Dialogue transcends differences and resolves conflicts’
